Guys, would it bother you if your girlfriend let you pay for every date or do you not mind?Girls, do you like guys to pay most of the time or try to even things out?
I always try to even things out in the end. I think it's nice for the guy to pay at first, but I don't like to think that I owe people anything in the end. I'm curious because I don't know how other girls handle these situations, and I don't know how guys prefer it.
I like to try and even things out. I won't want to pay all the time. That means the dude is a scrub if you gotta pay all the time. Inversely I think the girl is a scrub if she's having the guy pay all the time.
ReplyDeleteLike I said, I like to even things out, but he doesn't let me. He insists that he pays for most things because he feels like a scrub otherwise. So our compromise is that I pay for the "cheap" stuff. Like if we had dinner, he'd pay and if we went to a movie afterwards, I pay for the tickets.
Much like your "Me" equation, there are many variables, with coefficients that vary with the situation.
ReplyDeleteBut basically, I prefer to keep it close to even, without feeling like anybody is actually keeping track (that ruins it).